TVJ panel says Jamaica needs more visible positive male role models

A TVJ discussion on male influence in society examined whether Jamaica has enough positive male role models, with poet and gynecologist Dr. Michael Abrahams and recording artist Adiel Thomas agreeing that good examples exist but are not always visible enough to young people.

The conversation began with a definition of a role model as someone whose conduct is worthy of being copied. It was noted that no one is flawless, but people who live responsibly and acknowledge their shortcomings can still provide an example for others.

One speaker, who coaches young people, recalled seeing schoolboy athletes become immediately captivated when a well-known artiste arrived on a field. The point raised was that some entertainers, even those criticised for their lyrics, often command more attention from boys than teachers, coaches or professionals.

Abrahams said boys benefit strongly from affirmation by older men, particularly where fathers are absent. He said young men may then seek approval from popular figures whose values are not always helpful. While saying he does not support censorship, he expressed concern about the sexual content in some dancehall music, joking that some artistes "talk more gynecology than me".

The panel said fame, money, cars, houses and access to women can make some entertainers appear to represent success to teenage boys. The speakers argued that men with different values must also occupy public and social-media spaces, where much of youth influence now happens.

The discussion also mentioned social media personality IShowSpeed, who reportedly refused an alcoholic drink after asking whether it contained alcohol. That example was used to show how popular figures can influence young people by publicly choosing not to drink.

The speakers stressed that many Jamaican men are caring for families, providing for households and living responsibly, but tend to be quiet about it. Fathers were urged to be present not only physically, but emotionally, and to model respect through how they treat mothers, workers, cashiers, janitors and other people they meet.

The panel concluded that being a teacher, artiste, doctor or coach does not automatically make someone a positive role model. The speakers said men must live the values they want boys to follow.